The stage lights come on, the music swells, and the groom steps out into the middle of the wedding reception. What people notice first, after his smile, is often the satin-faced lapel catching the light. That is why many men choose a wedding tuxedo instead of an ordinary suit. This article helps you understand how a tuxedo differs from a suit, when to choose one, and how to choose one that flatters your build.
Quick answer
A tuxedo is a more formal outfit than an ordinary suit, characterized by satin- or silk-faced lapels and trousers with a satin stripe, and usually worn with a bow tie. Choose a tuxedo for a formal evening wedding reception at a hotel or an upscale restaurant; for a daytime or outdoor ceremony, a wedding suit is usually more fitting.
How a tuxedo differs from a wedding suit
| Detail | Wedding suit | Tuxedo |
|---|---|---|
| Lapel | Same fabric as the jacket | Faced in satin or silk, glossy |
| Trousers | Same fabric, plain leg | With an added satin stripe down the leg |
| Accessories | Tie or bow tie | Usually a bow tie; a cummerbund or waistcoat can be added |
| Shirt | Regular collar | Usually a stand collar or wing collar, pleated front |
| Shoes | Oxford, derby | Polished black Oxford or glossy leather loafer |
| Level of formality | From business wear to parties | Black tie, evening events |
Put simply: a tuxedo is a suit that has been "dressed in evening wear." It differs not only in the lapel material but in spirit.
When should you choose a tuxedo
- An evening wedding reception at a hotel, ballroom or upscale restaurant.
- A wedding with an elegant concept, where guests are invited to dress in coordinated dark tones.
- You want to stand out clearly in photos and videos.
When the ceremony takes place in the daytime, outdoors or in a rustic setting, a navy or light gray suit is usually more natural. A tuxedo under a blazing sun can look a little heavy.
Choosing color and lapel style
Color
- Black: traditional, formal, suits every evening event.
- Midnight blue (very deep navy): under night lighting it looks almost black but has more depth. Popular with many connoisseurs.
- Burgundy or deep forest green: for a groom who wants a personal touch, but it needs to fit the concept of the reception.
- Ivory: carries the spirit of the dinner jacket, suitable for an evening outdoor reception in a warm climate.
Lapel style
- Peak lapel: strong, lifts the shoulders, suits slim builds or anyone wanting to add presence.
- Shawl lapel: soft, classic, suits fuller builds.
- Notch lapel: the least formal, practical, suits a tuxedo that will also be used for other occasions.
Accessories to wear with a tuxedo
- Bow tie: the same tone as the lapel or slightly different. A hand-tied bow tie has more character than a pre-tied one.
- Shirt: white, with a pleated or plain front, and a wing collar if you want true black tie.
- Cufflinks: a small point of light at the wrist.
- Pocket square: white, folded flat, is the most classic.
- Shoes: polished leather, well shined, in the same tone as the belt or suspenders.
Mon Amie coordinates accessories for the groom and groomsmen (ties, bow ties, pocket squares, cufflinks) to the wedding concept, as part of the Groom Styling service.
Tips from Mon Amie's master tailors
- Choose a black fabric that is not too shiny. Under camera flash, glossy fabric easily reflects into bright patches in photos.
- Shoulders and waist are the two deciding points. A tuxedo that is too tight is hard to move in when dancing with the bride, and one that is too loose loses its lines.
- Try it on with the actual shoes. Tuxedo trouser hems are usually neat, so the length has a big effect on how you stand.
Frequently asked questions
How is a tuxedo different from a wedding suit?
A tuxedo has satin-faced lapels, trousers with a satin stripe and is usually worn with a bow tie, for formal evening occasions. A wedding suit is more versatile.
Should groomsmen wear the same tuxedo as the groom?
Usually the groom is made to stand out more, for example with a different lapel color or an added waistcoat. The stylist will advise on a combination to suit the concept.
If I will only wear it once, can I rent one?
Mon Amie offers suit rental by occasion at its showrooms. Rental prices are quoted by style when you get in touch, and you can try on the size in person.
An invitation from Mon Amie
If you are considering a tuxedo or a suit for your wedding day, book an appointment so a stylist can advise you based on the venue and concept. You can find more inspiration in the lookbook and visit one of our 5 showrooms to see the real fabrics.