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16 Things a Real Man Should Never Be Without

From a made-to-measure suit and leather shoes to a slim wallet and a toolbox, here are 16 essentials every grown man should own, with a tip on each one.

First published on 25/03/2020 on the former monamie.vn. Prices and promotions may have changed — our stylists will confirm current details.

We all have to grow up eventually. The things that were once inseparable companions, like a PlayStation, a pair of Air Jordans or baggy T-shirts, no longer suit your sharp features or your glossy gel-slicked hair. Maturity in every detail, every action and even your outward appearance is what you show the world to prove that you have truly grown up.

So what should a grown man keep by his side?

#1. A well-fitted made-to-measure suit

What is the difference between the two pictures above? A suit made to fit you well will make you look far more "solid" than a ready-to-wear one. In every respect, there is no reason for a man not to have a suit in his wardrobe. In addition, when having one made, make sure the tailor measures you and selects an exact size for your body, so that when you put it on, the suit shows off the strong, powerful physique you worked so hard to build over hours in the gym. And if there is a colour suggestion, choose neutral colours such as navy, grey or black.

16 things a real man should never be without

#2. A pair of brown or black leather shoes

A good pair of shoes lifts the whole outfit considerably. If you are about to look for a pair, choose brown so they pair easily with other pieces such as jeans, chinos and T-shirts.

16 things a real man should never be without

#3. Shoe polish

You wash, dry and iron your clothes. What about your shoes? The same rule applies: the more detail and care you give them, the longer your things will stay handsome and in good condition.

#4. A leather belt


Always remember this: if your trousers have belt loops, always wear a belt. And one more small tip: always match the colour of your shoes with your belt.

#5. A blazer

A blazer can improve your appearance considerably, as it pairs easily with a T-shirt and jeans or with a shirt and dress trousers. And once you put on a blazer, your "manly" factor goes up beyond question.

16 things a real man should never be without

#6. Fragrance

Women always like men who smell good, and choosing a suitable fragrance will make them go weak at the knees. A tip for using it: spray a little on your chest and the lower part of your neck.

#7. A leather wallet


We are too grown up to keep stuffing money, ID papers and all sorts of odds and ends into a bag. Find yourself a wallet today. And remember, this is not your father's big, clumsy wallet bulging out of his trouser pocket. Choose one as slim and elegant as possible.

#8. A bag

You already have a backpack and a gym bag. Carry the important things with you and choose a truly perfect bag for those great weekend outings.

#9. A really sharp watch

It is true that we usually check the time on a mobile phone, laptop or tablet, but a fine watch expresses your personality. Be mindful of the many details and accessories that come with it, too.

#10. A grooming kit

Unless you are a barber, consider a handy kit like this for tidying up your face.

#11. A good-quality kitchen knife


As a real man, you must know your way around the kitchen and cook something. So a good knife is always a capable helper. Don't buy a whole set unless you use them as kitchen decoration. Choose a high-quality one of the kind made for head chefs, because one knife that serves five purposes is still better than five knives you rarely use.

#12. A cast-iron skillet

These pans are non-stick and easy to clean, and can go in the oven or microwave at any temperature. What is more, they are very sturdy, don't scratch, and can be used for a lifetime.

#13. An iron and an ironing board

You can't always leave it to your mother or girlfriend to iron your clothes. So knowing how to iron your own shirt is also a clear way of proving "I am a man."

#14. Sunglasses

An accessory that cannot be missing from the collection of a real man.

#15. A cookbook

And here is a tip that never goes out of date: women love a man who can cook. Why? Here is the answer for you.

#16. A toolbox

You need a helper to fix the small things around the house, rejoin an electrical wire or set up the washing machine you just bought..

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