Some grooms settle on a wedding suit style, only to realise at the fitting that the suit colour and the bride's gown do not match, the tie clashes with the boutonniere, and each groomsman is a different shade. A wedding suit is not just an outfit; it is a whole system of details that must fit together. This article follows the order that stylists often use: fabric, colour, accessories, then the groomsmen.
Quick answer
To coordinate a wedding suit, choose the fabric first, then the colour according to the wedding concept, then the accessories (tie or bow tie, pocket square, cufflinks) in one tone. For the groomsmen, keep the same tone but vary small details so the groom stands out. Plan the fitting schedule by counting back from the wedding day.
Step 1: choose the fabric first
Fabric decides how the suit feels to wear and how it looks in photographs. For a wedding suit, favour:
- Smooth wool that holds its shape, with little creasing after hours of standing and sitting.
- A lightly matte surface, to avoid glare in photographs.
- Breathability, because a wedding day is usually hot and crowded.
You can feel many fabrics in the showroom or look at them in advance in the fabric library. The fabric tiers and prices are on the price list.
Step 2: choose the colour by concept
| Wedding concept | Suggested suit colour |
|---|---|
| Classic, formal | Navy, charcoal, black |
| Outdoor, garden | Light grey, beige, pale blue |
| Modern, minimal | Plain navy, single-button |
| Warm, intimate | Brown, light olive |
The suit colour should go with the colour of the bride's gown and the tone of the flowers. They need not be the same, only not in opposition.
Step 3: choose accessories in one tone
- Tie or bow tie: plain or in a small pattern, in the same tone as the boutonniere.
- Pocket square: flat-folded, a little lighter than the tie.
- Cufflinks, pins: choose a single metal (silver or gold) for the whole outfit.
- Shoes and belt: the same colour, polished well before the wedding day.
Step 4: coordinate the groomsmen
There are three common approaches:
- Same colour, same style: neat, with even photographs.
- Same tone, different details: the groom wears a tuxedo or three-piece, the groomsmen wear two-piece suits in the same colour.
- Same accessories: each man in his own suit but with the same tie or pocket square.
Mon Amie's groom styling service includes a made-to-measure groom's suit and options for the groomsmen, along with coordinated accessories. If the party is large or you need suits for a short occasion, you can also see the suit rental service. Rental prices are quoted by style on enquiry.
A preparation schedule counted back from the wedding day
- Choose the style, fabric and colour as early as possible.
- Measure and baste-fit, adjusting the shoulder and waist.
- Fit again after the adjustments, with the real shoes and shirt.
- Collect the suit and press it a few days before the ceremony.
The showroom will give the specific schedule for each step when measuring.
Common mistakes
- Choosing the suit colour from photos online without seeing the real fabric in the light.
- Too many colours in the accessories, which makes the suit look busy.
- Fitting too close to the wedding day, leaving no time for adjustments.
- Forgetting to try the suit while sitting and raising the arms.
Frequently asked questions
What fabric should I choose for a wedding suit?
A smooth wool that is lightly matte, holds its shape and is breathable is the most dependable choice.
Do the groomsmen need to dress the same as the groom?
No. The same tone with different small details helps the groom stand out.
An invitation from Mon Amie
Simply book an appointment and a stylist will advise on fabric, colour and accessories together. Look at the suggestions in the lookbook first if you want more ideas.